Orgasm is something which can help you relax or reduce stress, improve your skin and will make you feel great. But the problem is that most of the women are not able to achieve that during sex. And some have questions about the mysterious G-spot. Is it rely real? If it is then where it is? How to stimulate it? Is it necessary to stimulate? And many more questions.
Well, first of all it is quite uncommon for a woman to have orgasm just by having sex. According to the study only 18.4% of women reported that intercourse is sufficient, 36% indicated that, while clitoral stimulation was not needed, their orgasms feel better if their clitoris is stimulated during intercourse and additionally 36.6% reported clitoral stimulation was necessary for orgasm during intercourse. There were other preferences as well for the orgasm as well like location, pressure, shape, and pattern.
If you are one of those who have not experience or make you girl have vaginal orgasm, that doesn’t mean it is not possible. As, some believe that G-Spot can be the key to women having orgasm. But the problem is that it is still believed to be myth by some idiots. Well it is not and in this article you are going to know everything that you need to know about G-Spot.
What is G-Spot?
Well you might have heard of the term “G-Spot”. This is something which is believe to be the key for women orgasm. But the question is – is it real or not? Well the answer to that question is complicated.
Gräfenberg spot A.K.A G-Spot was introduced by Dr. Beverly Whipple. She was able to discover that using the “come here” motion along the inside of vagina which produced a physical response in women. It is believed by her that this region can be the key for women to have orgasm while having sex.
However, you should understand that G-Spot is not actually any distinct part of the body. Even researchers attempted to find the G-Spot in a 2017 study and came up with nothing.
You have to understand that G-Spot is not a separate spot in the vagina, instead it is the part of the clitoral network. So, you have to stimulate the clitoris to stimulate the G-Spot in your or her vagina which is actually a much larger than we believe. It turns out that the pea sized nub where the inner labia meet is actually only the tip of the clitoris and divides into two “roots” that can be about four inches long.
But you have to understand that the region of G-Spot can vary from woman to woman so it can be difficult to locate sometimes. But once you find it there is a guaranty of vaginal orgasm.
How to find G-Spot?
Well there is no map for you to find the G-spot in the woman’s body. That does not means that you will not be able to find it. The best way to find the G-spot is by exploring it rather than searching for it.
To find the G-spot you have to relax yourself before you start exploring your body. Now start by massaging the vagina before inserting the fingers or a sex toy.
After this move your figure or toy toward the direction of the belly button. Remember that G-Spot is not fixed in the body every woman has it at different area. So, you have to find the part where you feel the best. Just keep on repeating the motion until you find the spot.
NOTE: All the women are not satisfied by the G spot stimulation and remember that masturbation is completely normal and it can be a part of healthy relationship. By exploring your body, you can find your own erogenous zones and guide your partner what you enjoy the most.
Best positions to stimulate the G-Spot
If you are trying to stimulate the G-Spot during the sexual intercourse then there are certain positions which can help you out. You can try out the following positions to control your moments and decide which position help you achieve more pleasure.
Cowgirl
Cowgirl position help you out with complete control over rhythm, depth and angle. Instead of just moving up and down try to move back and forth to stimulate the G-Spot. Mixing the angle and speed can also help you out with stimulation. So, do not be afraid of experimenting.
Doggy Style
In this position try to lean forward on your forearm as much possible or try to push your hips backward to change the angle until you find the G-Spot. If you like it then you can try different variations by lying flat on your stomach.
Closed missionary position
There is a slight variation in the classic missionary position and you can get the better stimulation without the depth of penetration. You have to start by lying on your back, then your partner’s leg will straddle yours. This shallow penetration might hit you deep but it can create a tighter feeling, allowing you increased frication against the G-Spot. This kind of position can be perfect for your orgasm.
Final Words
It is not necessary that you will be able to find your G-Spot easily or it will give you that much pleasure. But one thing is sure while exploring your body you will be able to find various spots on your body which can provide you pleasure that you might not have imagined. So be confident and keep exploring.
